Troy Erstling Law of Attraction

“The unexamined life is not worth living” –Socrates

Hi there!

My name is Troy Erstling – your everyday sit at home philosopher pondering the questions of the universe and running experiments to become the happiest version of myself I can be.

But this website isn’t about me (despite my name being the domain 😛 ), if you want to learn more about who I am and my personal journey, you can read that here.

I built this website as a place to document my personal philosophy on how to live a happy life. My thoughts, experiments, and exercises aimed at helping you build a life full of genuine smiles, laughter, gratitude, and appreciation.

You see, whether we are rich or poor, educated or uneducated, whatever our nationality, color, social status or ideology may be, I believe that the purpose of our lives is to be happy.

This website deals with two questions – How can I increase the amount of genuine happiness in my life, and when the inevitable stresses of life DO arise, how can I properly deal with them?

I believe that happiness is a practice. A skill to be cultivated. Something to be trained on a day to day basis.

You BECOME happy. You BECOME sad. Over time. Through repetition of habits, thoughts, and routine. Through consistent practice.

It won’t change in a day or even a week. It will take time. All seeds need sufficient water and sunlight to properly grow, and if you want your happiness to grow from within, these articles will help you to implement the habits you need to build a happy life.

Below you will find articles on a variety of topics that all touch on this core element of taking responsibility for your life and putting in the work required to BUILD a happy life. May these articles nurture your journey of self inquiry and help you to create the happy life you deserve.

Here are the best articles to get you started in your journey –

The Relationship you have with yourself:

Before you can develop a relationship with the outside world you must first take a look at the relationship you have with yourself. How do you talk to yourself? How do you deal with negative emotions? How do you have fun with yourself? These articles below are all about prioritizing the relationship you have with YOU above all else.

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The most important practice in understanding yourself and building a happy life? Meditation. It’s an essential practice that will have a ripple over benefit into many areas of your life. Here are some of my most popular articles on how to get started meditating.

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As we begin to meditate we start to notice that we create space between thoughts and actions. This space then gives us control over how we react to difficulty in life. Here are some of my most popular articles in non-reactivity and controlling emotions.

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As we begin to better understand ourselves, we begin to change the way that we interact with the world around us. Here are some of my thoughts around the interdependent relationship of a social world we live in.

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Lastly, there are some insights that just don’t fit into normal categories and are a blend of many topics. These are always my favorites. Here are my best philosophy articles.

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Connect with Me:

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